tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8048953.post7131834010338117273..comments2023-06-19T13:55:49.396+01:00Comments on Radio Shak: Live and Let LiveShakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13657830810835591711noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8048953.post-11339398973162095142010-09-07T18:41:42.611+01:002010-09-07T18:41:42.611+01:00Zany/Humaira,
Wow you guys must know some dirty p...Zany/Humaira,<br /><br />Wow you guys must know some dirty people.Shakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13657830810835591711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8048953.post-55489182545408345492010-09-07T09:14:52.483+01:002010-09-07T09:14:52.483+01:00Shak I think ur right to 'brutally dismiss'...Shak I think ur right to 'brutally dismiss' if thinking doesn't match...but I do also feel that even with the same values n principles etc there will be elements of compromise which is what some find difficult to do. <br />You get used to day-to-day habits but if marriage is to work both parties need to put in the effort to make it work-and sometimes that's easy and sometimes it's difficult. <br />The thing is that your actions will now actually have a direct impact on your spouses life and vice-versa. So the care-free independent life that you live beforehand changes afterwards.<br />Naturally it takes time to grow n change and become one unit rather than two individuals and that's what is probably difficult...!<br />Going back to the first point of brutally dismissing- it's not a bad idea because if the basic principles you have don't match then that will just add more stress as ultimately it's not easy to change each other to fit what you may think is 'right' but instead you adapt yourself to the situation and it's far easier to change yourself but not at your own expense. You are both individuals and that should be celebrated but many times rather than both partners making compromises one makes most changes and the other doesn't which again leads to unnecessary stress in a relationship.<br /><br />It's not 'easy' as such but it is easier if you find the 'one' as you'll be more willing to adapt and compromise.<br /><br />Good luck in your search!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8048953.post-25565263942466951942010-09-07T08:11:24.267+01:002010-09-07T08:11:24.267+01:00The cleaning preferences are probably the hardest ...The cleaning preferences are probably the hardest to get used to.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678747201319313504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8048953.post-89818927968743347212010-09-06T20:43:59.371+01:002010-09-06T20:43:59.371+01:00It is all easy but it's not always very obviou...It is all easy but it's not always very obvious. <br /><br />Some of the differences may come from the fact that men and women sometimes have innate differences - The whole 'men come from mars, and women from venus' concept. <br /><br />So I think the reason people say marriage is hard work (even if the couple have similar values and expectations and find it extremely easy to get along) is because that it takes some getting used to live with a new person. They may have different eating, sleeping, cleaning, etc. preferences than their spouse.Zanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16786906632909587584noreply@blogger.com