Sunday, February 12

My First Rishta

Yes, so today is the day I get taken to someone's house to see a girl for like the first time, ever. Ooooh. Strangely enough I seem to be quite indifferent or possibly pragmatic toward the whole thing, which might be due to my decision to just not worry about these things anymore. I don't even mind that my parents agreed to make it a dinner (and so in one stroke removing any chance of me making a quick getaway).

It's almost like I'm tackling it in a very academic manner - I just want to see what happens at these things. Yes, there are other parties involved, but this attitude of mine doesn't disrespect them, I don't think. I mean my mind is open to the possibilities, but on the other hand a rishta meeting with me was never going to be typical.

How exciting!

2 comments:

  1. This is sooo exciting! :-D

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  2. indifference seems to be borne out of a bit of fear and disappointment. well it's what i gleaned when i spoke to you in manc. pragmatism in these matters is good but you'll only get somewhere if your heart's in it.

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